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Guest Post:Smart Ways to Support Your Child’s Learning Beyond School Walls

September 05, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   Uncategorized   |   0 Comment

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Busy parents supporting children’s education often see the same pattern: school is happening, but learning beyond the classroom feels stuck. Some children face academic struggles that chip away at confidence, while others breeze through worksheets and grow bored, and both scenarios can turn home learning into nightly friction. The hardest part is […]

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Trichotillomania (compulsive hair pulling)

August 25, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   Uncategorized   |   Comments Off on Trichotillomania (compulsive hair pulling)

A new study suggests that the main trigger for trichotillomania is not distress, frustration, or other intense negative feelings, but under stimulation or boredom: A new study suggests that the main trigger for trichotillomania is not stress, frustration, or other intense negative feelings, but under stimulation or boredom: https://www.sciencealert.com/trichotillomania-new-study-explains-why-people-feel-compelled-to-pull-out-their-own-hair?utm_source=news.sciencealert.com&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=today-s-top-science-news

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For parents dropping off your college freshman

August 12, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of teenagers   |   Comments Off on For parents dropping off your college freshman

This video offers some expert tips for parents feeling anxious about dropping off their college freshman: https://abc7ny.com/amp/videoClip/19668197

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Guest Post:How Teens Can Use Play and Imagination to Beat Burnout and Boost Motivation

August 12, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   For teens   |   Comments Off on Guest Post:How Teens Can Use Play and Imagination to Beat Burnout and Boost Motivation

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info For high school and college-bound teens balancing classes, homework, activities, and constant notifications, burnout can show up as numbness, irritability, and a sudden drop in dopamine and motivation. When the brain stays in stress mode, teen mental health takes a hit and basic tasks start to feel heavier than they should. Whimsy maxxing is […]

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Guest Post:How to Grow Without Burnout and Keep Your Progress Going Strong

August 06, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   For divorced parents,For parents of children,For parents of teenagers   |   Comments Off on Guest Post:How to Grow Without Burnout and Keep Your Progress Going Strong

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Busy professionals juggling work, family, and health often begin a personal development journey with real energy, then watch it fade into guilt and stop-start progress. The core tension is that self-improvement challenges tend to reward intensity at first, but that same push can drain long-term motivation and quietly undermine burnout prevention. When […]

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Guest Post:How To Make Daily Life Smoother When Your Child Has Behavioral or Mental Health Challenges

June 16, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers   |   Comments Off on Guest Post:How To Make Daily Life Smoother When Your Child Has Behavioral or Mental Health Challenges

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Parenting a child with behavioral or mental health challenges can make everyday life feel like a nonstop cycle of responsibilities. Between appointments, school concerns, emotional ups and downs, and household demands, many parents find themselves longing for vacation—not just for the break, but for the feeling that comes with it. Vacations often […]

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How fathers can help address online misogyny

June 01, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   Uncategorized   |   Comments Off on How fathers can help address online misogyny

This is an interview that I did recently with the pixel project (an online volunteer based nonprofit organization seeking to address violence against women): https://www.thepixelproject.net/2026/06/01/fathers-for-pixels-interview-series-2026-jamie-rishikof/

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Guest Post:Help Your Teen Manage Their Mood Disorder With These Tips For Succeeding In School

April 07, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on Guest Post:Help Your Teen Manage Their Mood Disorder With These Tips For Succeeding In School

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Parents of teens with depression, anxiety, or behavioral challenges often feel stuck between protecting their child and pushing them forward. When school feels overwhelming, it’s tempting to reduce expectations. But one of the most powerful — and often overlooked — supports for struggling teens is meaningful ownership in school-wide projects. When students take […]

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How to Build Family Resilience and Stay Strong in Unpredictable Times

February 26, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on How to Build Family Resilience and Stay Strong in Unpredictable Times

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Busy parents managing child behavior shifts and teenagers carrying school and social pressure often feel stuck when plans change overnight and emotions run high. Navigating uncertainty can turn small disagreements into ongoing family conflicts, especially when communication breaks down and everyone is trying to feel safe in their own way. Mental resilience […]

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Guest Post:How Parents Can Help Kids Thrive Through Major Life Changes

February 23, 2026  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers   |   Comments Off on Guest Post:How Parents Can Help Kids Thrive Through Major Life Changes

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Parents of children and teenagers often notice that managing major life changes, a move, separation, a new school, a loss, a new caregiver, doesn’t just alter schedules; it can change how everyone feels and behaves at home. The emotional challenges of transitions can show up as irritability, shutdowns, clinginess, defiance, or sudden […]

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Guest Post: Thriving Through Life’s Major Transitions: How to Stay Grounded When Everything Shifts

November 20, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on Guest Post: Thriving Through Life’s Major Transitions: How to Stay Grounded When Everything Shifts

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Life changes fast — sometimes beautifully, sometimes brutally. Whether it’s a new career, a relationship ending, becoming a parent, or moving to a new city, transitions test who we are. But they also reveal who we can become. The ability to navigate these moments with clarity, courage, and compassion determines not just […]

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On reducing anger and frustration

November 12, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on On reducing anger and frustration

Despite what seems to make sense the common idea of “venting” to reduce and relieve anger does not actually work well, and deescalating, soothing, and calming activities are far more effective: https://www.sciencealert.com/venting-doesnt-reduce-anger-but-something-else-does-study-discovers https://news.osu.edu/breathe-dont-vent-turning-down-the-heat-is-key-to-managing-anger

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Guest Post: Unique Ways to Improve Your Mental Health in a Modern World

October 23, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on Guest Post: Unique Ways to Improve Your Mental Health in a Modern World

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Mental well-being isn’t just about eliminating stress; it’s about creating conditions that allow you to thrive. In an age of digital overload and social fragmentation, small, creative adjustments can make a profound difference. TL;DR Explore data-backed mental health resources at Mind or National Alliance on Mental Illness. Reimagining Your Path for Well-Being Sometimes mental renewal […]

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Guest Article: Making Mindfulness Part of Everyday Life

October 21, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on Guest Article: Making Mindfulness Part of Everyday Life

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Mindfulness isn’t a luxury or a trend — it’s a simple shift in how you experience daily life. By paying full attention to what’s happening right now — without judgment — you can reduce stress, increase focus, and find calm even in chaos. TL;DR Mindfulness means noticing the present moment — what […]

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Effectively coping with anger

August 04, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   Uncategorized   |   Comments Off on Effectively coping with anger

Debunking the common myths of catharsis (including rage rooms and exercise) or venting as methods for managing and reducing anger, and exploring what has proven more effective: https://www.sciencealert.com/venting-doesnt-reduce-anger-but-something-else-does-says-study?utm_source=ScienceAlert+-+Daily+Email+Updates&utm_campaign=2f318da938-RSS_EMAIL_CAMPAIGN&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_fe5632fb09-2f318da938-365490661

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Guest Article: Letting Stress Out Through Your Own Creativity

June 24, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on Guest Article: Letting Stress Out Through Your Own Creativity

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info Managing stress is something everyone wrestles with, and while you might turn to familiar strategies like exercise or meditation, there’s something quietly transformative about finding your way back to creativity. Whether you’re sketching out thoughts, molding ideas into music, or simply doodling at the edge of a page, creative outlets offer relief […]

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Strategy for getting to sleep

June 18, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on Strategy for getting to sleep

A trending method called “cognitive shuffling” has some solid research as an activity to help insomniacs get to sleep: https://www.sciencealert.com/cognitive-shuffling-really-could-help-insomniacs-get-to-sleep

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Raising Leaders: How to Nurture Leadership in Children Without Forcing It

May 15, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers   |   Comments Off on Raising Leaders: How to Nurture Leadership in Children Without Forcing It

by Melissa Howard ⎸melissa@stopsuicide.info You don’t have to raise the next president or CEO to help your child become a leader. Leadership, at its core, is about influence, decision-making, and the ability to bring people together around a shared goal. It’s not about bossing others or standing out in front of a crowd with a microphone […]

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Screen time in bed

April 15, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on Screen time in bed

A new study confirms that any screen time use is associates with an increase in the odds of sleep problems https://www.sciencealert.com/screen-time-in-bed-may-increase-insomnia-odds-study-suggests

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Venting anger

March 15, 2025  |   Posted by :   |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Comments Off on Venting anger

This article looks at a meta analysis of the research on using exercise and venting as a cathartic release for anger: https://www.sciencealert.com/venting-doesnt-reduce-anger-but-something-else-does-study-reveals?utm_source=ScienceAlert+-+Daily+Email+Updates&utm_campaign=1f8061a361-RSS_EMAIL_CAMPAIGN&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_fe5632fb09-1f8061a361-365490661

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