some new helpful links:
http://edu.prinews.net/2011/01/parenting-teenagers-2/
http://choose4me.com/parenting-teenagers-doesnt-have-to-be-life-destroying/
http://lovesexmarriage101.com/blog/family/techniques-to-use-for-parenting-your-teenagers-3609.php
http://fiveoclocknews.net/parenting/3-powerful-suggestions-for-parenting-teenagers