Bonsai trees

May 07, 2012  |   For parents of teenagers,metaphors to help facilitate communication   |   Click on title to comment!

The following dialogue is from the TV series SeaQuest DSV (1993-1996). The dialogue takes place between Captain Bridger and Dr. Wendy. The Captain has been given charge of a teenage boy named Lucas. He is really struggling with the boy’s stubbornness and rule breaking. Most recently Lucas had sneaked out to see a girl. (Outside […]

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Teens and sex

May 05, 2012  |   For parents of teenagers   |   Click on title to comment!

More teens are using effective birth control: http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/05/03/more-teenagers-use-highly-effective-contraception/ http://www.businessweek.com/news/2012-05-03/teenage-girls-using-contraception-more-often-u-dot-s-dot-study-shows http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/04/us/georgia-study-finds-teenage-girls-are-using-better-birth-control.html?_r=1 And are waiting until they are older to have sex: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2139519/Teenagers-postponing-having-sex-majority-having-intercourse-19.html?ito=feeds-newsxml

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Teens and texting

May 03, 2012  |   For parents of teenagers,For teens   |   Click on title to comment!

A recent State Farm survey of 652 14- to 17-year-olds, conducted by Harris Interactive, found that 57 percent said they sent text messages while driving. A National Highway Traffic Safety Administration telephone survey discovered that drivers ages 18-20 reported the highest level of cell phone use in a crash or near-accident, and were three times […]

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Pristine glass

April 30, 2012  |   For parents of teenagers,metaphors to help facilitate communication   |   Click on title to comment!

“All parents damage their children. It cannot be helped. Youth, like pristine glass, absorbs the prints of its handlers. Some parents smudge, others crack, a few shatter childhood completely into jagged little pieces, beyond repair.” [i]   I would add that some parents try to overprotect childhood and keep the glass in the case, never […]

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On raising teens

April 30, 2012  |   For parents of teenagers   |   Click on title to comment!

Older kids and teenagers may reject you as part of their growing up. Try not to take it too personally. That is why it is so important to make time to do things with them when they are younger.   * * * * Do not expect your teens to make it easy for you. […]

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