Some thoughts on Parenthood

May 14, 2012  |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers   |   Click on title to comment!

Something my parent taught me about parenthood Bad news You never stop feeling responsible. You always hate seeing characteristics you don’t like in yourself being exhibited by those you are responsible for. You’re never sure if what you are doing is the appropriate action and if it will result in the desired effect. What may […]

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Guru Samurai revisited

I return here to lessons I learned from caring for my dog. I repeat that in no way am I suggesting that caring for a dog is the same as parenting a teenager. Simply, that the role of caretaker has certain elements that can be generalized to both relationships. Another lesson I learned from owning […]

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Helping kids with Anxiety

May 08, 2012  |   For parents of children   |   Click on title to comment!

A great article by a friend and colleague, Sari Shaicovitch, http://clubmom.ca/blog/how-to-help-your-child-who-worries/

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Bonsai trees

May 07, 2012  |   For parents of teenagers,metaphors to help facilitate communication   |   Click on title to comment!

The following dialogue is from the TV series SeaQuest DSV (1993-1996). The dialogue takes place between Captain Bridger and Dr. Wendy. The Captain has been given charge of a teenage boy named Lucas. He is really struggling with the boy’s stubbornness and rule breaking. Most recently Lucas had sneaked out to see a girl. (Outside […]

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Teens and sex

May 05, 2012  |   For parents of teenagers   |   Click on title to comment!

More teens are using effective birth control: http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/05/03/more-teenagers-use-highly-effective-contraception/ http://www.businessweek.com/news/2012-05-03/teenage-girls-using-contraception-more-often-u-dot-s-dot-study-shows http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/04/us/georgia-study-finds-teenage-girls-are-using-better-birth-control.html?_r=1 And are waiting until they are older to have sex: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2139519/Teenagers-postponing-having-sex-majority-having-intercourse-19.html?ito=feeds-newsxml

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