Why do kids get angry with their parents when life is hard?

December 08, 2014  |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers   |   Click on title to comment!

In working with kids and parents, I have noticed that when the kid struggles, be it with peers, academically, or otherwise, he often takes it out on his parents. There is one fairly well accepted explanation for this tendency. Essentially, the idea is that a kid trusts his relationship with his parents. His parents are […]

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On teenagers

December 02, 2014  |   For parents of teenagers   |   Click on title to comment!

Some thoughts on dealing with teens: Try to show some interest in your teen’s interests, even if you really aren’t that interested. You may find their interests too violent, too loud, too boring,…etc, but if they invite you in I suggest you take the opportunity. Interest in what they are interested in makes them feel […]

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Older siblings

December 01, 2014  |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers   |   Click on title to comment!

This article discusses the often overlooked role that older siblings play in younger siblings’ development: http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2013/04/29/179266284/Big-Siblings-Big-Influence-Some-Behaviors-Run-In-The-Family?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=npr&utm_term=nprnews&utm_content=2052

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Children of divorce

November 26, 2014  |   For divorced parents   |   Click on title to comment!

This article explores some potential effects of divorce on children, and offers some sound advice https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/the-unintended-effects-of-divorce-on-kids-103483542077.html

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On lonliness

November 24, 2014  |   For parents of children,For parents of teenagers   |   Click on title to comment!

Although there has been some concern that kids are becoming less socially engaged with their reliance on social media, but research suggests that there has been an increase in extraversion and self-esteem, and a reduction in lonliness: http://www.science20.com/news_articles/more_social_loneliness_among_american_teenagers_declines-149805

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