In working with kids and parents, I have noticed that when the kid struggles, be it with peers, academically, or otherwise, he often takes it out on his parents. There is one fairly well accepted explanation for this tendency. Essentially, the idea is that a kid trusts his relationship with his parents. His parents are […]
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On teenagers
Some thoughts on dealing with teens: Try to show some interest in your teen’s interests, even if you really aren’t that interested. You may find their interests too violent, too loud, too boring,…etc, but if they invite you in I suggest you take the opportunity. Interest in what they are interested in makes them feel […]
Read More »Older siblings
This article discusses the often overlooked role that older siblings play in younger siblings’ development: http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2013/04/29/179266284/Big-Siblings-Big-Influence-Some-Behaviors-Run-In-The-Family?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=npr&utm_term=nprnews&utm_content=2052
Read More »Children of divorce
This article explores some potential effects of divorce on children, and offers some sound advice https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/the-unintended-effects-of-divorce-on-kids-103483542077.html
Read More »On lonliness
Although there has been some concern that kids are becoming less socially engaged with their reliance on social media, but research suggests that there has been an increase in extraversion and self-esteem, and a reduction in lonliness: http://www.science20.com/news_articles/more_social_loneliness_among_american_teenagers_declines-149805
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