Tool to help divorced parents coordinate finances

December 16, 2015  |   For divorced parents   |   Click on title to comment!

Supportpay  is a new platform for managing childcare expenses, that helps divorced parents keep things as simple and business-like as possible. http://www.fastcoexist.com/3054375/a-simple-tool-is-helping-divorced-parents-not-make-a-nightmare-of-child-support http://supportpay.com  

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Second-level emotions

December 14, 2015  |   metaphors to help facilitate communication   |   Click on title to comment!

It is bad enough feeling depressed, or anxious, or angry, or resentful. There are times when it is almost impossible to avoid these feelings. But then we get caught up in what my wife refers to as ‘the second level.’ You can be depressed about being depressed, (i.e. “What’s wrong with me? Why do I […]

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On Fear

December 07, 2015  |   metaphors to help facilitate communication   |   Click on title to comment!

  “What is fear anyway? It’s a series of automatic responses to a given stimulus, characterized by increased heart rate, respiratory activity, and adrenaline function. The only problem with fear is that it has largely become inappropriate and non-adaptive. Do sweaty palms help to talk to your boss? Does a racing pulse help some kid […]

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The importance of free play

December 03, 2015  |   For parents of children   |   Click on title to comment!

Some articles discussing the important life experience and mental health benefits that kids get when they go out for unstructured play: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/12/03/researchers-let-your-kids-fall-off-the-damn-monkey-bars.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/freedom-learn/201001/the-decline-play-and-rise-in-childrens-mental-disorders?utm_source=FacebookPost&utm_medium=FBPost&utm_campaign=FBPost  

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Couch potatoes

December 03, 2015  |   For parents of teenagers   |   Click on title to comment!

A new study out of Northern California Institute for Research and Education confirms that a couch potato lifestyle – watching a lot of TV and low physical activity level as a young adult – is associated with worse cognitive function 25 years later: http://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/623730/children-addicted-to-TV-more-likely-brain-dead-adult-cognitive-function-television  

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