The importance of communication and flexibility in your relationship with your teen:
http://www.uticaod.com/opinion/x1606474494/Communication-is-key-to-guiding-teenagers
Tips for avoiding the more common arguments with teens:
And some tips for talking to your teens about drugs and alcohol:
http://www.courierpress.com/news/2011/oct/11/tips-for-talking-with-your-teens-about-drugs-and/