Here are some moreĀ great blogs on communication with your kids:
http://asa.ilikehandbag.com/2010/09/07/communication-getting-to-know-your-child/
http://homeinsteadwakp.wordpress.com/2010/09/09/communication-tips-children-with-parents/
http://graycenter.wordpress.com/2010/09/11/facilitating-communication/
http://www.villagecounselingandwellness.com/Communicatingwithteens.html