Here are some new links with tips:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/7689040/helping_teenagers_to_communicate.html
http://www.bukisa.com/articles/444769_helping-teenagers-to-communicate
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Solve-Behavioral-Problems-in-Teenagers&id=5770379
http://www.stoptantrums.org/313/techniques-to-use-for-parenting-your-teenagers/
and here is a new book:
http://www.minutemannewscenter.com/articles/2011/01/27/entertainment/doc4d41d7b57f34d969823004.txt