Some new helpful links:
http://www.mtparent.com/index.php/component/myblog/communication-and-teens.html
http://dailyvenusdiva.com/2011/08/26/great-ways-to-boost-teens-self-esteem/
http://www.iol.co.za/lifestyle/family/parenting/the-rules-of-engagement-with-teens-1.1127006